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Title: Coming on 14 months abstinent off alcohol, it's been great!
Post by: Zarnon on April 07, 2023, 10:35:57 AM
2/22/22 I decided I'd had enough.  I gave it up and realized for me anyways,  it had to end completely.  No more wiggle room on this.

Since I made that commitment,  it's been amazing. I got into fitness, dropped 24 pounds,  got into kayaking, weightlifting, meditation, singing, recording, all kinds of stuff.  I went to Costa Rica twice, stayed sober the whole time and had a freaking blast! 

I made some major life changes, one of them being getting out of an unhappy marriage, deciding to retire and move overseas.   I dropped 5/6 meds I was on.  I have felt happy and content with the direction my life is taking and looking forward to the future.

(https://i.imgur.com/wkEvRMD.jpg)



Title: Re: Coming on 14 months abstinent off alcohol, it's been great!
Post by: oleesheet on April 07, 2023, 09:41:44 PM

Congratulations Zarnon - Your post resonated with me as I went through something similar.  I drank wayyyyyyyyyy too much for wayyyyyyyyyyy too long and deep inside, it was clear I had a problem but was completely buried behind my high stress job over 40 years.  Then I retired back in 2011 and the perceived need to drink every night just went away.  I didn't even try and was all a matter of getting that horrendous stress out of my life - it did take a few years.  Last drink for me was 2016 and can't begin to describe the difference in my life.  And look at all the money you're not spending!  Congrats man!
Title: Re: Coming on 14 months abstinent off alcohol, it's been great!
Post by: Mr_Hand on April 07, 2023, 10:09:31 PM
Congratulations Zarnon. I quit drinking 22 years ago, when I got arrested on my front yard in front of the neighbors… :whistle:

Glad you found better ways to enrichment.
Title: Re: Coming on 14 months abstinent off alcohol, it's been great!
Post by: Ceej on April 08, 2023, 05:13:17 AM
Glad to hear you were able to turn things around and make such a great difference in your life!
Title: Re: Coming on 14 months abstinent off alcohol, it's been great!
Post by: Zarnon on April 09, 2023, 08:58:36 AM
Congratulations Zarnon. I quit drinking 22 years ago, when I got arrested on my front yard in front of the neighbors… :whistle:

Very cool.  Yeah,  I had a stretch of sobriety back in the day, 7.5 years sober  then made the classic mistake of thinking I was fixed.